I have been taking an online class with Ms. Viola Voltairine. She the Director and Producer of the upcoming film adaptation of ‘Finding Love through Female Domination‘, a book by Ms. Renee Lane.
Ms. Voltairine is also a lifestyle female dominant and educator in female led relationships. You can find out more about her course entitled ‘Obedient Love’ here.
Required reading for the course covers a lot of feminist literature such as Burn It Down!, I Hate Men, and The list of shit that made me a feminist as well as her own newly published book, 150 Years of Gynarchy.
They have been an eye opener for me in many ways. Most importantly, all the things I rattled off as ‘serving my wife’ in part 1 of I Belong to Suzanne, is really just being a decent human being who shares a living space with another person. I had such an inflated male ego to think doing her laundry should earn me some pat on the head and a ‘good boy’ because I took over ‘the woman’s job’.
I guess in one sense I guess it does – because us men in general are so very clueless, the fact I do anything to support and serve a woman’s day-to-day needs is to be considered miraculous by women in this patriarchal tyranny they are forced to live in.
But once being ‘woke’ to the fact that doing all those ‘things’ for my wife is the lowest of low bars, the question becomes, “then what is a good submissive male to do?” It goes beyond ‘serving’.
It means treating her like a human being and then treating her as a better human being.
It’s being attentive to her moods.
Be quiet! Just shut up. Let her set the tempo and direction of your day.
It means Listening to her. And by that I mean the kind of listening where you are not carrying on an internal conversation with yourself about your response the entire time she is talking. I mean the kind of listening where you register not only her words, but perceive her meaning and the mood behind them.
It means making space for her to do anything she feels like, and you do whatever she feels like too. With a smile!
It means she controls the remote and picks the show.
It means if she wants “just a bite…” of your food, you smile and offer her as much as she wants.
It means her wants take front stage at all times and being always available and eager to please her – at any given moment – in whatever she wants.
I didn’t sit back and expect her to spoon feed me a feminist point of view and explain how she likes things done, I actively worked at educating myself in all that.
So in closing, become a decent human being. Become something worth keeping around. Yes, be useful. But have a personality, a brain, a spirit. Then give it all away to her.
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