Not every woman chooses, or is in a situation, to keep her slave(s) in her own house and maintaining a sense of domination and discipline from a distance can sometimes be challenging. So I’ve given some thought to toys and methods a woman could employ in her D/s exchanges remotely. My first three aren’t technically even kinky! Just common every day items.
A WiFi enabled camera, preferably with motion detection and infrared (night vision), is a great and inexpensive start. Having the ability to eavesdrop on him at anytime is a powerful reminder for him of your absolute authority. Additionally, it lends itself to ‘games’ and discipline sooooo easily. Put him in a chair directly in front of the camera with the motion detection feature on. Maybe add a vibrator or nipple clamps – something to make him squirm – and then tell him you will check again in one hour. The number of times his movements have triggered the camera will be counted up and he will receive that number of spanks or days added to his chastity or…
Fitbit and all the other ‘health and fitness solutions’ are missing the boat in my estimation. What a huge market there is for allowing a non-wearer (trainer) to determine your goals and monitor your success at meeting them. The newest models can track heart rate and blood pressure (you can see if he’s getting excited as you describe what is going to happen to him!), amount of sleep (or not… sleep deprivation is a marvelous re-educating tool!) and physical exercise. You simply should not tolerate a lazy, unfit ‘fatty’ serving you!
And let’s not forget the cell phone glued to almost every human being everywhere. You can track his location at all hours and text of call him when you need him do perform for you! Or use it for snap inspections! Require photographic evidence of… oh, whatever would be really fun for you… in 2 minutes or else!
Here are a few more just to get your own brain juices flowing;
Writeforme.org – Writing assignments serve two purposes. They are punitive and they are a good tool of behavior modification/mind control. Writeforme automates the writing assignment. You tell it what text you want typed out, the number of lines, the time permitted to complete the task, and so many other features. Like hiding his input as he types and adding extra lines automatically for each mistake. Of course the results of his efforts are sent to you for review.
Chastity Roulette – If you can’t be bothered with deciding when to let him have an orgasm – face it, they are pretty unimportant – use the Chastity Roulette wheel to randomly decide for you! The duration and punishments on the wheel are completely customizable by you.
The Obedience App
Fairly well known in BDS/M circles now-a-days , the Obedience App is fully customizable also. You set the task and the frequency, he obeys. His obedience to each instruction is recorded for you to peruse at your leisure.
Pavlok 3 – I have fixed feelings on this one. I actually purchased one on it’s promise that it could deliver an electrical shock remotely via the Internet, but it’s reliability is spotty at best. A shock sent now may (or may not) happen immediately, a half hour from now, or just never. Fairly useless as a D/s tool other than it’s reminder feature which can deliver a shock on a set schedule.
Cellmate – Remote chastity control. I own one of these as well and again it is a case of buyer beware. I was actually locked into mine by a total stranger who hijacked control of my device! **GASP!** I didn’t know whether to be wildly turned on or panick! It would be very difficult to remove the device competely without breaking it and as it is a bit costly, one would hesitate before taking that step. (P.S. They’ve added an emergency override so you can release yourself if needed, but it can only be used once every 30 days and the unlocking is reported to your keyholder.)
Dreamlover – Remote chastity control AND cock training. The Cadillac of chastity devices, the Dreamlover can detect tampering with the chastity cage, deliver pleasurable vibrations, debilitating shocks and force the wearer to maintain a position of all fours (like a dog). Create idea, but outrageously expensive. Would love to hear from anyone who actually own one!
Edge-o-matic – The name says it all. Also remote controlled.
The Self spanking machine – Whackity whack! Don’t talk back! 🙂
So that’s a good start I think. If you have some good ones for remote domination and discipline, please let me know! I’ll add it here!
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