Have you ever had this experience? Your surgeon is about to have you put under anesthesia and stops to ask you which entrance you used to get in. When taking communion, the minister or priest stops to ask you which door of the church you entered.

No? Because nobody has. Because in those critical moments, how you got to there is not important. You are there now.

I am a Feminist ally (and yes, I know all the often all-to-true jokes about how fairly worthless male Feminist ally’s are, but face it… while we might not be overly useful to you, at least we are no longer on the side trying to actively destroy you.) and I feel sometimes people frown on me, a sexually submissive man approaching and promoting Feminism from the angle of FemDom and cruel gender role reversal.

Some may feel that I am merely continuing the male stereotype of the powerful woman being ‘the leather-clad bitch with a whip’ and that I am just objectifying women as sexual objects. Well… I admit it. It’s all true. I am.

I also obey their instructions like a good employee-servant, I respect their views and opinions over my own and I worship them as semi-divine beings.

Face it, the world is full of all types of women. They encompass a spectrum of thoughts, plans, wants and needs and in a perfect world they would each be fulfilled. IMHO Women, far more than men, are emotionally complex and many, many women contain the entire spectrum within themselves! The singer/songwriter Meredith Brooks summed it up perfectly;

“I’m a bitch, I’m a lover
I’m a child, I’m a mother
I’m a sinner, I’m a saint
I do not feel ashamed
I’m your Hell, I’m your dream
I’m nothing in between
You know you wouldn’t want it any other way”

So if you don’t believe women who actually enjoy FemDom activities exist, you’ve never met Ms. Renee Lane or read her book. If I am lucky enough to find a woman who understands and accepts her divine status as a living, breathing Goddess on Earth, who fights for women’s rights and who gets turned on by being a cruel and sadistic bitch towards men, who is to say I am wrong in submitting to, assisting and supporting, and worshiping her all at the same time?

Everything, everywhere, all at once. (HINT: It’s more than just a movie.)

At the end of my day, my self-judgement is always what I did in the past 24 hours to please a woman. She may have been feeling ‘girlie’ and insecure about her looks, so I praised her beauty. She may have been angry at some world event that perpetuated the subjugation of women, I re-tweeted her posts and made supportive comments on social media. She may be feeling her inherent divinity, so I pledged my body, mind, and soul in devotion to her and to women everywhere. She might have felt like putting on her leather boots and having them kissed while whipping and chastising a man into submission out of pure retribution just for his being born male. She may be feeling despair and frustration and want nothing more than a strong shoulder to cry into.

My purpose as a man is to support, serve, and please her. To be the strong, silent scaffolding she builds her dreams upon.

How I got here shouldn’t matter to you at all…

So, for a few years now I have been working diligently on behalf of Ms. Renee Lane and Goddess Voltairine, doing my best to promote their efforts in producing a full length motion picture adaptation of Ms. Lane’s book, ‘Finding Love through Female Domination’. I have followed their lead by posting salacious femdom-style images accompanied by pleas to donate and I’ve seen the number of followers of the various groups she has spawned grow into the hundreds of thousands. Largely men who profess their submissive nature, yet by-and-large ignore the message and simply drool over their ‘free porn’.

No more.

I have come to respect the power and intelligence of women and now see the truth – if you want something done, it will take a woman to do it.

So starting today, my message will be directly solely to women. My page ‘Obedient Male’ will change. My first thought was to rename it ‘Dominant Women’, but the truth is, it is their nature to dominate, so perhaps ‘Natural Women’ would be more fitting.

Before you disagree with me about my comment ‘it is their nature to dominate’, I offer you this thought; if you don’t think that being born and raised, then surviving in an oppressive male-run world that by-and-large objectifies you and wants nothing more than to subjugate you doesn’t lead women to learn early on how to manipulate, seduce, and control men… to develop essentially a feminine underground – a support system of other women around them… to develop extra senses that allow them to intuitively read men and situations for their own survival, then you are clueless.

Women may not be the ones in power yet, but they are already the puppet-masters, pulling men’s strings and making them dance. For men, it started before your mother was born and it lives on in your girlfriend, wife, mistress. So. ‘Natural Women’ it is.

My posts will speak to and recommend women direct their substantial energies towards ‘encouraging’ the men around them to do whatever they can to raise money for this film. Imagine if those 100,000+ followers of Ms. Lane’s postings where all women and now imagine they all agreed to cut of their men from any form of sex until they managed to donate $100 to the cause. How long do you think it would take to make the film’s budget? Then exceed it…

Women are the answer. To this problem as well as all the world’s problems. I’m done with my fellow man.