My epiphany

from Mistress Scarlet UK

I have realized that every single subby in an FLR relationship that has ever interacted with me has fallen into one of two types.

Type A, (the vast majority), are not wholly content and wish their Mistress would be crueler and more pitiless. Type B, whom, while being wholly content, deeply regret some of what their FLR life involves for them and desperately wish their Mistress would just dial back a few or the most cruel elements of their regimen.

So it seems to me a perfect equilibrium cannot exist. For a submissive to truly meet their submissive craving of; being helplessly in the power of a pitiless, cruel dominant, they must regret some elements of, what they wished for. Unless there is some of that regret, they cannot be truly content.

This brings me onto being a dominant women, ruling in an FLR. I have NEVER been so sexually content as I have been since I pushed things to where my bitch genuinely regrets what he wished for. (The almost constant power-rush is huge.) I believe Christine and other Dommes feel the same. It is therefore so frustrating when I read time and again of women ‘playing’ being in an FLR. They never get what they truly can get and nor does their subby. I accept it is to some extent a leap of faith to reach the, genuinely regret what they wish for level, and very much against civilized societies’ norms, but it is a plain fact that so very many submissives exist, and it seems surely the best way forward, is to reach that perfect symbiosis for both the subby and the Domme, of the subby regretting what they wished for.

So, is that the tipping point for ensuring symbiotic contentment for both parties? He MUST genuinely regret what he has wished for?

Submissive Houseboy Truths*

*(that may take some getting used to)

NOTE: The term ‘Your woman’ is used throughout this. In no way is it intended to denote possession. It is simply a literary short-hand to say ‘The specific woman you serve and who rules over you and her domain’.

Brett
  • Home cooked meals are a necessity. If you are her homemaker you should not be ordering food in or picking up take-out.
  • Your woman’s career goals are now your goals as well. You may have to put your own career aspirations on the back burner until she achieves all of her own.
  • Your woman has the final say in household/familial issues and your obedience is key.
  • Always respond ‘yes’ or ‘okay’ when your woman asks something of you. This displays respect.
  • Your tone will either foster communication or set it back; in essence your tone sets the tempo of the relationship. Be cognizant of the manner in which you speak to your woman. Aggressive and nagging speech can negatively affect your relationship.
  • Your woman should always be sexually satiated. If she is not it is up to you to reevaluate how you can better please her. Your pleasure should be derived from pleasuring her.
  • A disorganized home breeds chaos and unrest. Always do your best to clean her house as best you can.

Are you a ‘Good boy’?

A good boy is…

A good boy is grateful for everything his female master does for him. He sees every opportunity to please her as a precious treasure. Whenever she is happy, he is happy. His female master owns him, body mind, and soul. She is his world, and every day he reflects on how lucky he is to be a part of her life.

A good boy obeys his female master, even when faced with challenging instructions. He understands it is his place to carry out her demands without question, whatever they may be.

A good boy actively looks for ways to serve his female master and tries to anticipate her desires. He pays close attention to her routines and carefully learns her preferred food, drink, and forms of entertainment. By doing so, he is always prepared to fulfill his female master’s needs.

A good boy sacrifices his pleasure so that he may focus exclusively on satisfying his female master. If given permission, he may frequently bring himself to the brink of climax without going over the edge. This ensures he is always aroused and ready to please her. No matter how frustrated he gets, a good boy never, ever cums without her permission.

Counting up, Counting down!

by Mistress Scarlet

It dawned on me recently, as I was enjoying a week that included so many lovely DS moments, just how much amusement, (and even sadistic pleasure) the Domme can acquire, and how much misery and subjugation the sub suffers, from instances of counting-up and instances of counting-down. I wonder of other Dommes and subs have additional examples to those I mention below?

One of my amusements when counting up, is when giving a caning for a transgression for which I have awarded a set number of strokes. I will use the example of 12 strokes. Either I will verbally count each stroke, or I have my bitch count each stroke and thank me for it too. Stroke 12 is reached and delivered and verbally counted. But then, another strokes is delivered. And possibly another and possibly yet another. The verbal counting must continue of course. The atmosphere crackles with the unfairness, with my abuse-of-power and cruelty, and with the subs desolation.

Another amusement would be with my bitch counting each stroke and thanking me for it too. For this amusement, I would wait until the discomfort caused some poor annunciation of a counted number by my bitch. My response was either, “I could not make-out exactly what number you just counted. We will have to start again with one.” OR “Well that was not a very clear thank-you. I expect nice clear, sincere thank-yous, we will have to start again with one.”

Thinking of past pleasures, another of my amusements when verbally counting down, used to be when I had given my sub a count of thirty, to jerk himself off while kneeling on the floor before me. This would be after a period of orgasm denial and a promise that if he did not cum within the counting period, he would not be cumming for another week or two. My two favourite options: 1). I would count down slowly to start with, but then the counting would start to speed up and get faster and faster, while I smiled cruelly, my bitch would begin to whimper and fret and panic. 2). I would count down from thirty but rather inaccurately; “30…29…28…27…21… 20… 19.. 18… 13….etc” When a jump in the counting-down occurred there would be smiling cruelly from me and , whimpering and fretting and panic from my bitch. I mentioned these ‘jerking-off’ examples are pleasures of the past because as you know, my bitch only gets to cum under the sole of my shoes, (and that is a very rare event).

Laughable requests

Very briefly, I am naked but for my bedroom platform mules. I find my bitch. Typically he has gone many weeks without orgasm. I throw poses in front of him and he watches, torturing himself. Then I ask if he has any laughable requests. He asks first, one at a time, for a few things I will never, ever allow. While he is almost certain these things are gone forever, he can’t accept they are, so he asks, ever hopeful. Then he moves to things I am likely to grant once every few months. In this laughable request session, after a couple of refusals of such things, he then asked, “Please Mistress, please may I kiss and caress your beautiful bottom for a few moments, please Mistress?‘ I pondered for a while, and then said he may. He was overjoyed. He knelt behind me and began his very respectful caressing and dry-pecking-kissing. He was making noises of gratitude and ecstasy. I felt like a cruel ice-queen, thinking how low I have driven him from a couple of decades ago, when those noises were because, perhaps, I was allowing him to take me from behind, say. Now those noises were for being allowed to worship my butt cheeks. Then I started a slow countdown, “Ten……nine……eight…..“. He begins to panic and his ardour becomes more passionate and desperate. Then the real cruelty, as with one of the examples above, I miss out some numbers, after, ‘eight’, comes ‘four, then three.‘ He begins to emotionally sob as he kisses and caresses. I get to ‘one‘, and I walk away. Almost always in such circumstances I must walk away to my bedroom for an orgasm; he can hear. No doubt as he does he is thinking of the many, many weeks since he has had an orgasm, thinking how long he has been locked in his tiny chastity tube. He himself, probably shamefully thinking how low I have driven him, thinking that what he just did is now such a treat for him. Poor submissive bitch.

But when the suffering has faded, he will no doubt be as much as awe of me as ever, and so grateful that, unlike so many unfortunate subs, he truly is having his craving met of: being helplessly in the power of a pitiless, cruel dominant. It’s just that there is such a high price to pay for that!

More counting cruelty…


Since Brett was last permitted (a ruined) orgasm.

A Privilege

Over the past two months, I have had the absolute privilege to work for a secretive group of women collectively known as The Company.

A life-long male submissive and slave to various women, and now slave-husband of the dominatrix Suzanne SxySadist, this is my first time working on a purely woman imagined, woman designed, woman led project of this magnitude. It is a world-wide enterprise strictly meant to empower women and objectify men and I want to take a moment to offer my observations of and praise of their endeavor.

The women of The Company remain as anonymous as they prefer to be. Their safety and privacy is paramount, reinforced by a strict non-closure agreement and rules prohibiting any male member of The Company from initiating contact with them without their express permission. The males have no idea who they are serving, where she is located, how old she is, or what she looks like… they know only the woman’s chosen Company name. That was one of the things that struck me first – it acts as a tremendous leveling of the playing field for the women, where men are not choosing who they serve based on looks… or any other criteria! The women do all the choosing based on extensive profiles submitted by the men, each backed up by mandatory identity verification, background checks, physical, psychological, and sexual tests. They know everything about the men, the men know nothing about them.

My second observation comes from seeing these women work together to create something unique and amazing. The Company was first imagined by the Goddess Viola Voltairine whose ‘elevator pitch’ for the idea was a ‘male servant Uber for Women’. Ultimately, a phone app where a woman could summon a local male property to come serve her in whatever she may need taken care of. Over these early months, I’ve watched the women collaborate, suggest, debate, and ultimately work hand-in-hand to lay out their dreams and wishes for the program. Having spent decades as a programmer in the male-centric business world, seeing them work together has been nothing short of life changing. None of the arguing, office politics or power plays so common when men are involved in decision making… just gentle suggestions, long thoughtful silences, conversations and in the end, consensus. As it has evolved in directions Goddess Voltairine did not originally intend, she hasn’t demanded on having her way like so many men I’ve worked with in the past would have. She is perfectly willing to let her private dream become an organic thing, birthed by her and grown by many of the most intelligent, insightful women I have ever had the privilege to meet and serve.

It is a perfect snapshot of what our future could look like in a Gynarchal world.

It is no longer fantasy. It is female empowerment, in action, for real, right now, and these women will become some of the honored great, great founding grandmothers of a woman led empire to come.

Normalize male objectification

What better way to let other women see the possibilities of a future matriarchy for themselves. Normalize male objectification and obedience.

“Hey! hey! Look at that!”

“What?”

“It’s one of those pet dog boys. I’ve never seen one for real before.”

“Oh wow! Me neither. Look at his tail wagging. He seems really into it, doesn’t he?”

“You’re focusing on that? Look at his banging body! Nothing is covered.”

“You think he still feels shame? I’ve heard about some of the processes they go through in their training messes with their minds and more. I can’t really imagine what’s going on in these guys’ heads. Probably something twisted!”

“Man, he’s really cute. I wish I could have one of those.”

His owner is taking him out for his daily walk.

He has to act happy. Wagging the damned tail by swaying his hips side to side lewdly while crawling on all fours. It makes his insides feel funny.

He has to have his tongue out, lolling and panting. His eyes have to focus on the owner’s boots or crotch. Overall, creating the looks of a needy pet. She loves when he craves her attentions. They all do.

Other women always notice them and want to take pictures, make comments, or even approach and play with him. He has to be pleasant and act like it the best thing in the world.

More often than not, his owner loves to turn the “in-heat” mode on during their walk. His butt plug tail vibrates, arousing his cock. She says it makes him more “friendly”.

All of her perversions happen no matter what he thinks or feels, and unfortunately for him, he does still feel shame and humiliation.

“Human pets are the icon of happiness, and their existence makes the society better.” What bullshit. It’s just a horrible perverted circus act that she loves, Billy thinks to himself, as they continue on their way. And his owner does love objectifying and humiliating him!

The sweet smell of male surrender.

My dearest fellow males. We are doomed. Like me, you may have been brought up to think of women as ‘the weaker sex’, but don’t take their apparent weakness as anything more than them giving us men a chance to step up, fix the destruction we have carelessly wrecked on this planet, and learn to follow their instructions and finally, to obey them. And if the modern feminist movement reveals anything about them, it is that their patience with us is just about up.

You might be a very ‘macho’ male who feels at best, women should absolutely be ‘permitted‘ equality, but you’d never surrender to one…

Ohhhhh… you are so in trouble.

From things like the #MeToo and #TimesUp movements, you are aware of their open weaponry in their struggle – but did you know that secretly, they are using chemical warfare against you as well? Your sweet little vanilla wife or girlfriend, the one who cooks and cleans and raises the kids and would never dream of whipping you into a sobbing, begging mess, is intuitively helping her fellow women to destroy your masculinity and hence your ability to want to resist them, right now? Literally under you very nose? And her weapon of choice?

Lavender.

She has a dozen air fresheners, one in every room spritzing it because, “Oh honey, doesn’t it smell so nice?” You linens and clothes sit in a closet infused with lavender sachets so when your head hits the pillow at night, you breath lavender. In and out, in and out… as you stand naked in the shower, the scent of her lavender soap fills your nostrils and lungs and enters your bloodstream…

WTF are you TALKING about Brett? What does lavender have to do with the world feminist movement and the desire of some women to rule over men?

What women understand naturally, intuitively, us men with all our science are just beginning to grasp. This from the Endocrine Society, the world’s oldest and largest organization of scientists devoted to hormone research, comes this;

“Lavender is an endocrine (hormone)-disrupting chemical in the environment that interferes with specifically male hormones and their actions in the body. It appears to create hormonal conditions in males that stimulate gynecomastia in prepubescent boys. Further, laboratory evidence suggests that lavender and tea tree oil have estrogenic (estrogen-like) properties and anti-androgenic (testosterone inhibiting-like) activities, meaning they compete or hinder the hormones that control male characteristics, which could affect male puberty…”**

Endocrine Society

You have only to look at the history of witchcraft to know women are much more in touch with nature and intuitively know how to harness it to their advantage. Even further back, while we where out slaying woolly mammoths, they were gathering fruits and berries and learning of their powers…

Gentlemen, surrender now. They are far too clever for us. It’s our only hope for our future!

**Endocrine Society.org

The Fairfield Husband’s manual


DEAR READER: I take a perverse pleasure in taking material from male dominant, misogynistic websites and correcting them to become female dominant works.  I started with the Fetlife profile AmericanQueendom, where almost all the captions came from sources reveling in the torture and degradation of women, advocating rape, abuse and murder. Please don't lecture me on modern feminism not being all about reverse-misogyny and retribution - I get it. It's just a kink of mine. 
What follows is a beginning of a fantasy adaptation of a nonexistent manual based on the movie, 'The Stepford Wives'.  A patriarchal horror film if there ever was one.  Well now in Fairfield, the tables have turned...  enjoy! 

Religious and historical training

excerpt from the future Fairfield husband’s groom training course

Introduction from the Fairfield Husband’s manual

Fairfield Husband’s manual

Religious and historical training.

All future Fairfield husbands should begin their education by learning these religious and historical texts and be prepared to recite them on command. They are important cornerstones in the founding of Fairfield and point to the long history of men’s subservience to womankind.

Janet K. (1513-72): “Man in his greatest perfection was made to serve and obey woman, NOT to rule and command her.”

Janet K. (1513-72): “Man in his greatest perfection should have known that woman was lord above him; and therefore that he should never have pretended any kind of superiority above her, no more than do the angels above Goddess the Creator.”

Janet K.(1513-72): “In his greatest perfection, man was created to be subject to woman.”

Burnedette DK: “Last, there is the husband who is like a maid-servant. He serves his wife well and with fidelity. He respects her, obeys her commands, has no wishes of his own, no ill-feeling, no resentment, and always tries to make her happy.”

Jean-J R.: “The whole education of men ought to be relative to women. To please them, to be useful to them, to make themselves loved and honored by them, to educate them when young, to care for them when grown, to council them, to console them, and to make life agreeable and sweet to them. These are the duties of men at all times, and should be taught them from their infancy.”

Jean-J R.: “Man was made to yield to woman and put up with her injustice.”

A (354-430): “Man is merely woman’s helpmate, a function which pertains to him alone. He is not the image of the great Goddess for as far as woman is concerned, she is by herself the image of the Goddess.”

Preistess G I (540-604): “Man is slow in understanding and his unstable and naive mind renders him by way of natural weakness to the necessity of a strong hand in his wife. His ‘use’ is two fold; [carnal] sex and servitude.”

Clementine of Alexandria (150-215): “Every man should be filled with shame by the thought that he is a man.”

Margaret Luther (1483-1546) “Man is a stupid vessel over whom woman must always hold power, for the woman is higher and better than he; for the regiment and dominion belong to woman as the head and master of the house.”

Southern Baptist Women’s Convention (2000): “A husband should submit himself to the leadership of his wife. Leadership in the church should always be female.”

Saint Anne (347 – 397): “Man ought not only to have simple arrayment, but all authority is to be denied unto him. For he must be in subjection to woman (of whom he has taken his origin), as well in habit as in service.”

Paulette’s letters to Corinthians 11:8 – 11:10

“For woman was not created from man, but man from woman; Neither was woman created on account of or for the benefit of man, but man on account of and for the benefit of woman.

Therefore he should be subject to her authority and should have a covering on his head as a token, a symbol, of his submission to authority, that he may show reverence unto Goddesses angels here on earth and not displease them.”

1 Corinthians 11:34 – 11:35

“The men should keep quiet in the churches, for they are not authorized to speak, but should take a secondary and subordinate place, just as Matriarchal Law also says.
If there is anything they want to learn, they should ask their own wives at home, for it is disgraceful [a shame] for a man to talk in church. For him to usurp and exercise authority over women of the church.”

1 Teresa 2:8 – 2:12

“Men, for their part, should display their bodies by dressing modestly and decently in appropriate clothes, not by wearing gold, or expensive clothes, but through their good and obedient works. This is proper for men who claim to revere Goddess.”

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An excerpt from the future Fairfield husband’s groom training course

Congratulations! You have been selected by a woman to become her husband!

So what does make a boy a happy Fairfield husband?
It’s just so simple, yet no one wants to say the truth in today’s society:
Most boys are happiest when they make a woman orgasm. That’s it. That’s all it takes. Make a woman cum and you’ve got instant happiness.
And sure, maybe that happiness won’t last for more than a couple of hours, but that’s why you’ve got to make her cum again and again and again.
What makes one male better than another? It is when he accepts his purpose. It’s when he is eager, happy, and knows he is a tool for a woman to satisfy herself on. He is then a more desirable cock holder. A husband!
Show her she made the right choice picking you. Smile and moan when she finishes on you.
Then show her your appreciation by thanking her for making you feel useful.

Remember all Fairfield women want a smiling husband always eager to please!
Cook, clean, service: the meaning of life for a Fairfield husband!

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Introduction from the Fairfield Husband’s manual

Welcome to Fairfield! Be happy knowing your lifetime of service has begun! This manual was created just for you, the new Fairfield husband! It contains everything you need to know to become the best husband you can be. First, we must inform you of some laws here in Fairfield that pertain specifically to you, husband;

Curfews
Husbands are never permitted outside their wife’s property without their express written permission. Be sure to ask her to include the specifics of where she is permitting you to be and when to avoid any trouble with the Fairfield women’s police. Under no circumstances may husbands be away from home and their duties after dusk unless accompanied by a woman. And under no circumstances may a husband ever leave the house without first being secured in some form of chastity by his wife.

Polyandry
Polyandry is an acceptable practice for women here in Fairfield. Women use the rules of the patriarchy to their fullest advantage in more easily transferring your wealth, changing your name, and being by your side at the time of your death to hear your pledge to continue to serve her in Valhalla, the afterlife.

Property rights
Husbands are not entitled to own property in Fairfield. All property, real or otherwise, must be in the name of a woman.

Stop and Search
Unless accompanied by a woman, men are subject to legal stop and search by the the Fairfield women’s police at any time – at the sole discretion of the police.

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The Fairfield Husband’s manual

  • Waiting is an extremely important Fairfield husband skill. The fact that she tells you to stay in position while she finishes complicated woman work or a conversation, the idea that she does it for no reason other than to assert her dominance should make you hard.
  • Fairfield husbands should expect a weekly maintenance spanking followed by thank-you-for-making-me-a-better-husband ass worship and cunnilingus.
  • A Fairfield husband knows that a woman needs to mark her territory. It is natural. She may wish to brand or tattoo her name on you. Your body is a canvas for her to paint.
  • When not cooking and cleaning, a Fairfield husband is the entertainment for his wife.
  • You should always make sure you are undressed and ready for when your wife gets home.
  • Fairfield husbands take it up the ass. Most women love it and husbands can earn points towards their next pair of shoes or t-shirt.
  • Always remember the Fairfield secret of marital happiness: If your wife is happy, then you are happy.
  • Obedience is happiness. So let’s all work to bring back the phrase, “I’ll have to ask my wife!”

Chapter 1 –

  • Learn how your wife prefers you to greet her when she gets home and undress and display yourself as she tells you to with a smile.
  • Cook and clean for her. Women deserve a man that services her in more ways than just sex. The cooking and housework is your responsibility.
  • While cooking and cleaning, remember that you are on display. Always arrange things that if she tells you to present yourself for her sexual gratification that you can do so quickly without burning food on the stove or in the oven.

Chapter 2 –

  • Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you’ll be refreshed when she arrives home from work. Touch up your deodorant and be fresh-looking. She has just been with a lot of work-weary women making important, world changing decisions for you. Greet her with a look and a pose that is sure to make her glad to be home.
  • Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house and bedroom just before your wife arrives. Run a dust cloth over tables and smooth the bedspread until it is perfect. She will reward you for your efforts.
  • Look in the mirror. Imagine yourself as a boy in a television commercial; you should look flawless, at all times. Practice how to greet your wife in the most pleasing way when she gets home.
  • Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready, on time for her return. This is how you let her know you have been thinking about her. Most women are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal is part of the warm welcome needed.
  • Make sure you are ready when your wife gets home to greet her with a smile to take her mind off the work day.
  • You should always make sure you are undressed and ready for when your wife gets home.
  • Make her home a place she can enjoy.
  • A Fairfield husband knows that his body is made for her pleasure. You should display it, topless, bottomless or completely naked, as your wife wishes. She gets to use it on command in any location she desires.
  • Use all your talents to relieve her stress.
  • It is your job to ensure your wife has a relaxing and enjoyable evening.
  • A Fairfield husband knows that his body is made for her pleasure.
  • Try to make sure your home is a place of peace, order and tranquility where your wife can renew herself in body and spirit.
  • Your goal must be to hear the words “good boy” multiple times a day.


Chapter 3 –

  • Nothing else in life matters more to you than obediently serving women. As a man, you must constantly be asking yourself “how may I serve her?” for pleasing women is your reason for existing.
  • After fixing her dinner and she has retired to another room, quickly finish cleaning the kitchen and then prepare to make yourself her entertainment for the evening. Enter the room she is in quietly, perhaps naked or with your chastity device on display, and ask if you may help her relax from all the stresses of the day. The after-dinner pussy worship helps a woman to relax into the rest of her evening.
  • Make her comfortable. Have her lean back in a comfortable chair or have her lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for her. Arrange her pillow and offer to take off her shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.


Chapter 4 – Bathroom duties

  • It is a great pleasure for a woman to feed her pee to a man. Respect the gift she puts in your mouth. Do not spit it out or swallow unless she directly tells you to. If at first you find the taste of pee unpleasant, you must practice tasting and swallowing it daily until you truly appreciate the gift she provides you everyday.

Chapter 5 –

  • Happiness is a clean house and a happy wife.
  • Be the picture of traditional servitude. Your wife will enjoy watching you perform your husbandly duties, sometimes for hours.
  • To please your wife, be the picture of traditional masculinity. You should exercise whenever possible. Get your hair styled and be dressed well all the time when she permits clothing. Make sure she enjoys what she sees when she enters a room in her house.
  • Women are smart. men are useful.
  • Know your place. Do as you’re told.
  • Show her her pleasure is the most important thing in your life by making sure you consider even the little things that make her happy.
  • Women enjoy looking at other men. You are not to grow jealous or get upset. Instead, find ways to increase her pleasure of observing men that arouse her.

Chapter 6 – Upon her waking

  • Your attitude during your wife’s first five waking minutes in the morning sets the tone for her entire day.

Chapter 7 –

  • Exercise every day to maintain your physique. Remember, your goal is perfection. That means all your work and time will be going into appearing in tip top condition and being attractive for your wife.


Chapter 8 –

  • Make the evening hers. Never complain if she comes home late or goes out to dinner or other places of entertainment without you. Instead, try to understand her world of strain and pressure and when she is home, help her to relax and forget the troubles of the day.


Chapter 9 –

  • Women are full of sexual energy and can become sexually ferocious. When you have excited great lust and desire within her, expect her to act like a beast of the jungle. Her roughness with you is your reward for arousing her as you should.
  • Don’t ask her questions about her actions or question her judgment. Remember, she is the master of the house and as such will always exercise her will with fairness and truthfulness. A good husband always knows his place.


Chapter 10 –

  • Dress sexily while you cook and clean her house. Your wife will enjoy watching you perform your husbandly duties.
  • Always keep your ears on alert the moment you leave the room. Keep your ears tuned for your name to be called, a finger snapped, or a sign that she needs you to do something for her.
  • On days when your wife is home all day, remember that you are her maid and servant. Dress and act like it. Let her enjoy watching you perform your husbandly duties.
  • Your mouth is there for Her enjoyment.
  • To submit is to be happy


Chapter 11 –

  • Use all your assets. Fairfield husbands blessed with long tongues or large noses have an extra source of deep enjoyment to bestow on their wives. Ask her often if she would like to slide her womanhood on it.
  • The Well Endowed Husband: a man’s ass in motion are a pleasure to a woman. Bounce it often in her presence and ask if she would like to spank it or slide her strap-on into it.


Chapter 12 – Vacations

  • When your wife takes you with her outdoors, be sure to support her ideas on where she wants to go and what she wants to do. Find ways to make her trips even more enjoyable for her.
  • On vacations, be sure to dedicate an entire day to seeing how many times you can make your wife cum until she is completely drained. Then you will have truly met your duty as a husband – satisfying her completely.

Chapter 13 –

  • Put your wife’s hopes and interests before yours. Don’t ask your wife for many unnecessary things. Consider her needs before yours.
  • Satisfying her sexual needs is the most important thing to a Fairfield husband. You are required to give her pleasure, not get it.
  • Sometimes she needs to turn you from boy-next-door to dirty-defiled-whore.
  • Always thank your wife for using you.
  • Thank her for sharing her orgasms with you.

Chapter 14

  • Cook, clean and stay naked to reward her for the doing the work that is confusing to a man.
  • You are at your best when naked and obedient to a woman’s guidance.
  • When she’s had a tough day, provide her comfort. Show her her pleasure is the most important thing in your life by making sure you consider even the small things that make her happy.
  • When your wife is about to cum on your face, do not expect her to announce it. You should be prepared for her juices at all times.

Chapter 15 – Other Fairfield husbands

  • At times you may feel envious of other husbands. Sometimes you might feel hurt by things they say or looks they get from your wife, or you might feel self-conscious about your appearance around a more virile and handsome husband. Remember that like you, they are merely servants of their wives. Just this morning, they were cleaning the house with their cock cages showing, getting a firm bottom spanking for misbehaving or kneeling at their wives feet orally worshiping her. Just like you.


Chapter 16

  • Make sure the house is spotless before she comes home from work.

Chapter 19

The natural state of a man is to find happiness in her happiness.

  • When she is home, make life so attractive she won’t want to leave.
  • When his woman isn’t in the house, everything a man does is in preparation for Her being there.
  • If something brings Her pleasure, it is 100% your job to do it with a smile on your face.
  • Good boys love pleasuring women. Pleasuring women gives you a purpose and makes you happy.
  • When she is home, make life so attractive she won’t want to leave. Don’t make her feel guilty and don’t complain. Instead treat her like a queen and cater to her needs.
  • A man’s job is to provide his wife with what she needs.
  • All your clothes should be washed on laundry day. Be sure you plan no engagements outside the home as you will be naked until the laundry is complete.

Chapter 20 –

  • Do not possess strong opinions on any subject, unless you are expressing enthusiasm for recipes, cleaning products, her looks, or your wife’s ideas.
  • “What do women want?”: The primary thing women want is a submissive husband who keeps the house clean, makes her delicious meals and is ready to service her when she needs it.
  • Remember, food and a roof over your head aren’t free. A Fairfield husband must earn them!


Chapter 35 – Punishment and Discipline

  • You will be punished regularly. It is how men learn.
  • A disciplined husband is an obedient husband. A obedient husband is a happy husband.
  • Discipline and Authority are your anchors. You need them, they ground you. They help you to comply and obey. They restrict you, guide you. They help you to be better, improve yourself. They help you to find meaning and purpose. They help you to become a good husband.
  • You must learn your wife’s rules as quickly as possible. A Fairfield house should be one of love, harmony and pleasure. If it is not, then you are at fault and she will teach you to obey.
  • Regular correction, even if you haven’t done anything wrong, is an absolute must. Wives need to remind their husbands that they are in charge. No better way then to bare your bottom and give you a spanking. Spare the rod spoil the husband.
  • Not every spanking she gives you is because you did something wrong. Sometimes a woman does it just because she enjoys it. Be grateful you have yet another way to provide her pleasure.
  • Always thank your wife after a spanking.

Chapter 37 – Happiness is…

  • Happiness is … letting her make all the decisions.
  • Happiness is … providing her relief.
  • Happiness is … being handsome for your wife and letting her show you off in public.
  • Happiness is … kneeling in front of your wife to show your devotion.


Final Thoughts

You should review the Fairfield husband’s manual frequently, just like you need to look up recipes from your cookbook and read instructions on using cleansers. That is the secret to a happy Fairfield life.


BONUS CHAPTER: Ladies evening entertainment ideas
The 3 minute drill is a frequent fun game. He gets 3 minutes to lick and kiss you to orgasm. If he fails, he gets spanked for 30 seconds. He then gets another 3 minutes followed by another round of spanking. Each spanking round gets harsher.

His goal: extract her orgasm in as few rounds as possible.
Her goal: the complete opposite.

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