5 Reasons Adult Male Slavery Should Be Legalized

‘If you can imagine it, you can achieve it . . . ‘ – William Arthur Ward

Let’s face it. Slavery gets a bad rep and rightfully so. However, I thought it would be fun to present some reasonable arguments to why enslaving all adult men, 21 years and above, would actually be beneficial to society. After all, if recent history has taught us anything it has taught us that if you repeat something often enough and loudly enough, a lot of people will come to believe and accept it!

1. It Would A Massive Boost To The Economy

Let’s start with the most obvious benefit. Economic. By allowing men to be sold as property they essentially become goods, and goods can be taxed! The new female run government could tax a purchase (a sales tax), levy an ownership tax, or both!

Assuming the value of a slave is similar to a slave in 1860, that would be around $40,000. If women were taxed 10% of every purchase, the US sales revenue alone would be over $440 billion dollars! (based on a US population of adult males over 21 years of age, 110 million +/- CountryMeters.info)

Bear in mind that this money, if just put into building hospitals, could build at least 3,520 hospitals alone (assuming an average cost per hospital of $125 million). For schools the number is at least 10 times that. Meaning at least 35,200 schools could be build using male slave sales tax revenues. Providing tens of millions of women with modern, well facilitated schools.

But that is not all. The new slave industry would also mean new jobs. New jobs means more income, more income means more people paying taxes. Further, with roughly half the workforce removed from it, the remaining female workforce would likely be able to receive far more competitive salaries since employers would have to compete with each other to get employees from the limited number of available women workers.

Unemployment would be virtually non-existent as there will be such a huge void in the job market that it would take decades to fill all the men’s former positions with women.

Women would earn more, which would be transferred to her daughters which means her daughters would enjoy a higher standard of living.

Bear in mind, our estimate of the value of the male slavery industry of around $4 – 5 trillion would make it the largest industry in the United States alone. Worldwide, this industry would be more massive than the Manufacturing, Tech and Health industries combined.

Indeed if legalized, the male slave industry would lead to a boom time for America similar to the dot com market boom. And that is being extremely conservative. It is likely it would become the single largest industry in the world if legalized worldwide.

And we are not even considering all the other type of industries that would likely pop up due to legalized enslavement of man such as manufacturing restraints. And according to studies, a man can produce up to 3 and 5 milliliters of semen per day which is currently valued in Canada at $400-$650. (GroupEnroll.ca)

Imagine if just 1% of the enslaved male population, the most desirable 1%, is made in Hucows. That could be a multi billion dollar industry in its’ own right. Which could also be taxed! The possibilities are essentially endless.

Another source of revenue could come from allowing a man to extend their freedom by paying an annual freedom extension fee after their 21st Birthday. This is likely to be even more profitable. A literal steady revenue stream for the government which they can invest in hospitals, schools and public service.

Obviously, there is a lot of economical benefit to legalizing the enslavement of men.

2. Beneficial To Science and Health Research

You may have not expected this argument but yes, male slavery would actually be very beneficial to science especially in the creation of treatments, drugs and vaccines.

Unfortunately history has already confirmed this on several occasions. From experiments done on black slaves which created several cures for diseases (https://theconversation.com/the-hidden-stories-of-medical-experimentation-on-caribbean-slave-plantations-81600) to the horrible but valuable experiments done by the Nazis on their captives.

The human male is obviously a more accurate test subject when compared to chimpanzees who are currently our most accurate test subject for experimental drugs and vaccines.

Indeed if male slavery is legalized, male slaves will be replacing the chimpanzees for testing and they would likely yield far more accurate results. Just think of the last 2 years of vaccine issues with not enough testing for rapid antigen test which in turn meant it was not accurate enough until recently.

Imagine how much more quickly it could have been developed if better test subjects were available. Perhaps then we won’t be needing a third dose and such. Potentially this is perhaps the strongest argument for male slavery as billions in medical research could be saved if implemented.

Slaves may also be utilized in providing medical care. Currently most nurses are still female, but with slavery, men could not only fill this role, but their roles could be expanded. Not only could these slave nurses provide medical assistance they may also provide companionship and morale boast to female patients.

Without the distraction of their own lives they could fully dedicate their time to assisting patients as much as they possibly could. This may include giving pleasure to a patient before a possible dangerous surgery to help reduce her stress and to accelerate her recovery.

These slave nurses could not refuse a patient’s sexual advance and if it posed no harm to the patient’s recovery, they would be encouraged to satisfy these patients needs.

This will likely boast patient morale and be instrumental in their recovery. While not as instrumental as being a test subject for experiments, its’ value is also significant in terms of saving lives.

3. Reducing Stress and Providing Companionship

Suicides are rising every year due to growing depression. The rate of suicidal behavior is 40 to 60 percent higher in women than it is in men. The leading cause is depression and a feeling of isolation. By enslaving men, women could acquire a companion that would be dedicated to them fully.

Pressure that come from finding a partner would also likely not be a problem, as now they may just purchase the man of their dreams who could be trained to obey and satisfy their every desire.

Mankind would take a position more akin to that of a domesticated pet than of an equal partner. Indeed with mankind relieved of their freedom, they can now focus on one thing “making their female owners happy”. While at first this may take some adjusting to, it is highly likely that after the first decade or so the role of servant would become second nature to men.

Some would argue dogs are happier because they don’t think much… just playing with their Masters and doing their best to obey. Men will become ‘the new dog’ once male slavery is legalized. With the added advantage of being able to fuck them if the woman wishes.

It is likely with the dedication and love (and the occasional torture session to let off some steam) stress levels in women would be greatly reduced which in turn would likely lead to a drop in female suicides.

While taking male freedom away to reduce suicide rates may seem a bit much, in the words of Dr Fauci, “even one life is valuable” and being that this would save thousands of women’s lives, it stands to reason that men should be enslaved to make female lives less depressing.

4. Help Classroom Grades

I don’t know about you but school was mostly boring and down-right dreadful at times. In a male enslaved world this would likely change. Studies have shown that male students grades has been declining anyway for the last several years, so why continue the expense of trying to educate them.

Teachers could utilize slaves as a incentive tool for the now exclusively female students. “If your grades improve by 5 you get 5 minutes with the classroom sex slave. If you get an A, you get to take him home on the weekends to do… well anything you want.”

Studies by Maslow show that when positive incentives are given, production is increased by 20%.

This would likely be beneficial in the long run as well since if absenteeism and grades are improved, so will the quality of the graduates, which means a better educated society. The incentives could be like sport titles in that school. If you finish as a Top student you get a free slave of your choice from the school.

This incentive may be extremely attractive to future busy, hard working women.

5. New Entertainment For The Masses

With male slavery in place, some new types of of entertainment and sports can be formed to entertain the female public. Entertainment, the opiate of the masses, afterall makes people happier thus this will be an added value over all.

With better entertainment, the female public would be less stressed and more likely to enjoy their time in the Earth. This would also create new industries which, relating to point number one above, creates jobs… and can be taxed!

Imagine the sports that could exist. Ponyboy races, cunnilingus races, and many more. Also for those very pro woman in sports, these sports would be completely dominated by women. A pro-feminist dream come true. I mean many hardcore, patriarchal males will be put in a fight to the death with a lion in my imagining of these sports, but still. Lots of fun for the ladies.

CONCLUSION

There are a good number of reasons why legalizing adult male slavery would be beneficial to society. It would boost the economy likely surpassing even the level of the largest boom time, allow for more accurate test subjects which would lead to billions of lives saved through vaccines and drugs, provide companionship and emotional support for lonely women, slaves can be utilized as incentives in schools leading to better grades, and provide unique high quality entertainment to women everywhere.

Some points that I did not include here is of course, cheap labor (because this causes problems as well so I would ban males from work outside of a domestic context), and the fact that in human history, slavery is the norm not the exception, nor is it technically immoral as far as religions like Christianity and Islam don’t forbid it.

And lastly, that the huge financial windfall this new industry would create would probably lead to the collapse of the current capitalist model. After all, if women now have a virtually unlimited source of money, what value would money be anymore? It would pave the way for a more collaborative, synergistic society model. A model based on feminist ideals.

Just my dream. What about you? Share your thoughts!

With Great Sadness…

Death always registers with me in a profound way. While we were at DomCon in New Orleans, we joined in a kink parade up and down the public streets, celebrating our joy in diversity and, thanks to Mistress Cyan, Ms. Simone Justice, and the event organizers, carrying pictures of beloved fellow kinksters who had shrugged off this mortal coil and departed us all too soon. It was a beautiful way to pay tribute and remember them, and I felt it very deeply.

This popped into my Twitter feed this morning…

I have no idea who she was. I have never met her in person. But the end of a human life always gives me pause. In scrolling down her twitter feed I stopped cold. Frozen, staring at this woman’s own words from just two days before…

I can only assume the help she begged for never arrived. How f%^king sad. How very, very sad that we let a precious life slip through our all too busy fingers. Because whatever help she might have gotten was too little and too late.

“It is with great sadness…”

Yes, I am sad for her, but I am even more sad for all of us. I don’t presume to speak for anyone but myself, but what a call to action. To love the ones around me as hard as I can. To let them know frequently how much I value them, that I’m always here to help when they need help, that I hear them when they cry out.

Laila, whomever you were and where ever you are now, know that your passing caused a ripple that expanded outwards and touched me. I hope I can continue that ripple outwards to the people I know and love and make their lives just a little better… in memory of you.

Rest in Peace.

The sweet smell of male surrender.

My dearest fellow males. We are doomed. Like me, you may have been brought up to think of women as ‘the weaker sex’, but don’t take their apparent weakness as anything more than them giving us men a chance to step up, fix the destruction we have carelessly wrecked on this planet, and learn to follow their instructions and finally, to obey them. And if the modern feminist movement reveals anything about them, it is that their patience with us is just about up.

You might be a very ‘macho’ male who feels at best, women should absolutely be ‘permitted‘ equality, but you’d never surrender to one…

Ohhhhh… you are so in trouble.

From things like the #MeToo and #TimesUp movements, you are aware of their open weaponry in their struggle – but did you know that secretly, they are using chemical warfare against you as well? Your sweet little vanilla wife or girlfriend, the one who cooks and cleans and raises the kids and would never dream of whipping you into a sobbing, begging mess, is intuitively helping her fellow women to destroy your masculinity and hence your ability to want to resist them, right now? Literally under you very nose? And her weapon of choice?

Lavender.

She has a dozen air fresheners, one in every room spritzing it because, “Oh honey, doesn’t it smell so nice?” You linens and clothes sit in a closet infused with lavender sachets so when your head hits the pillow at night, you breath lavender. In and out, in and out… as you stand naked in the shower, the scent of her lavender soap fills your nostrils and lungs and enters your bloodstream…

WTF are you TALKING about Brett? What does lavender have to do with the world feminist movement and the desire of some women to rule over men?

What women understand naturally, intuitively, us men with all our science are just beginning to grasp. This from the Endocrine Society, the world’s oldest and largest organization of scientists devoted to hormone research, comes this;

“Lavender is an endocrine (hormone)-disrupting chemical in the environment that interferes with specifically male hormones and their actions in the body. It appears to create hormonal conditions in males that stimulate gynecomastia in prepubescent boys. Further, laboratory evidence suggests that lavender and tea tree oil have estrogenic (estrogen-like) properties and anti-androgenic (testosterone inhibiting-like) activities, meaning they compete or hinder the hormones that control male characteristics, which could affect male puberty…”**
Endocrine Society

You have only to look at the history of witchcraft to know women are much more in touch with nature and intuitively know how to harness it to their advantage. Even further back, while we where out slaying woolly mammoths, they were gathering fruits and berries and learning of their powers…

Gentlemen, surrender now. They are far too clever for us. It’s our only hope for our future!

**Endocrine Society.org

Attending a Kink Event for the First Time

NOTE: I was recently asked to offer advice to male submissives on attending a kink event for the first time. By way of a resume of sorts, I can say I have been lucky enough to attend many, many kink events over the course of my relationship with my wife Suzanne. Dark Odyssey, Leather Retreat, Black Rose, Shibaricon, APEX, Thunder, Floating World, Bound in Boston, NEEHU, C.O.P.E., Paradise Unbound, SINsations and DomCon… several of these more than once.
Brett

Rule numma one, learn the rules! Every con has them. Find them, study them, consider getting them tattooed on your arm (just kidding!). But seriously. They will tell you all you need to know.

For example, some events rent out the entire hotel, so being a little kinky in your choice of clothing in the lobby may be okay. Others just have the conference space and a block of rooms, so vanilla mommy and her little ones will be everywhere else. Don’t be creepy around the vanillas! Actually, just don’t be creepy. Period.

At one conference, Suzanne and I got into an elevator with another couple who had a coffee urn on a cart. I smiled and trying to make small talk commented that I thought bringing your own coffee maker was brilliant as hotels never give you enough in the rooms. They looked nervously at us trying to decide if we were part of the con or not and then seeing our badges relaxed and said, “Er, no. We’re teaching a class on coffee enemas…” Worked for me! 🙂 Maybe not so much for vanilla mom.

Things they don’t tell you.

Remember while you are there, you are an ambassador for kinky people everywhere. Don’t leave your dildo soaking in the bathroom sink or the leather cuffs you bought at the con lying on the bed. The staff may or may not be kinky and does not consent to seeing what it is we do (WIIWD). Also, consider it your job to represent the con and make sure the hotel will be happy to invite them back! Consider leaving a daily tip and nice note for the cleaning staff. Thank the front desk people. In short, be your best you!

Did I mention don’t be creepy? That said, absolutely DO be a stalker!

Do your stalking.. errrr… homework. Research whom else may be attending. If there is someone you are particularly interested in meeting, learn about them. Learn their interests. Read things they’ve written. Everyone likes to be flattered, but only if it’s sincere. To say, “It’s my pleasure to meet you! I loved what you wrote about…” is a nice ice-breaker. If they are teaching at the event, hang back at the end of the class and go up and thank them. Tell them quickly what you got from their talk and say you hope to get a chance to speak more with them later.

“It is NOT about the clothes” (but it really is). That’s to say, it is not what you wear, because you will see it all. Jeans and a Bud Lite t-shirt to thigh-hi boots and full leather gear. But whatever you wear be neat and be clean!

Things you should already know (You’re a grown-up for pete’s sake)

Get a haircut. Shave (if that’s your thing). TRIM YOUR FREAKIN’ NAILS! I want to tell you a story about meeting a Domme for the first time. We met for coffee at a diner and after exchanging pleasantries she ordered me to put my hands on the table. She examined my hands and poorly trimmed nails with a ‘tsk-tsk’. “You need to do better. A slave never knows where he may be invited to put his hands and untrimmed, dirty nails are a punishable sin.” ‘Nuf said. Be neat and well groomed! And here is where Ms. Voltairine’s Obedient Love training comes in… oral care. Scrape your tongue, brush your teeth for two minutes (Yes! 2 full minutes!) and use a mouthwash. Nothing is more of a turn-off than bad breath. Speaking of smell, leave your AXE body spray at home. It is a Goddess given right for women to smell intoxicating or primal or whatever the hell they want so don’t even TRY to compete. Use unscented deodorants and soaps and let her scent envelop you both.

Like the saying goes, dress for the job you want. In this case, your dream job involves you being naked, so… be sure to wash and press that birthday suit before hand!

Some more “Do”s

Be alert for chances to be courteous. Hold a door open to let a woman pass. Politely offer to help carry stuff is you see someone struggling.
Speaking of classes, get there early. Keep an eye out for a chance to be helpful. Maybe arranging chairs, getting a table, fetching a glass of water. At some cons, I’ve ended up doing more work then some of the con workers! But that’s me, I’m a service slut. 🙂

Dungeon/Play party etiquette

Be quiet in the dungeon! (Goddess, someone needs to beat this one into me!)
Look but never touch anyone or anything unless you are invited too.
Keep your distance and don’t intrude on someone’s space while they are playing or immediately afterwards. If you aren’t careful you may get a fast lesson on exactly how much room it takes to throw a single-tail whip!
If you are lucky enough to be invited to play, wipe down the bondage gear before and after use. Nobody wants your flop sweat.
Thank them for agreeing to ‘play’ with you! Then thank them again! Ask if you can help pack up their gear for them while you are thanking them a third time.

Definitely bring your own gear if you have some. It you don’t have any yet, the vendors area is a great place to start adding to your toy bag. (yes, submissives have toy bags too!) After all, she may not want your blood all over her favorite whip but I bet she wouldn’t mind at all if it was yours! 🙂 Another benefit of bringing your own toy bag is it gives her an immediate read on you and your BDSM likes. If you have floggers, whips and toothy-bitey clothespins, it says something completely different than if you have a feather duster, stocking, panties, a dog collar and a hairbrush. Then again, maybe you have all that. Ohhhhhh… you little slut you! 😉

After the ball was over…

You will probably experience what is known as Con drop. Maybe even Con crud. Con crud is the cold (or nowadays, Covid) you will inevitably get following a weekend of non-stop adrenaline, little sleep, and crappy food habits. Con drop is a melancholy – a mild depression – that it’s all over. For a too brief moment you got to be your authentic you and enjoy being amongst people just like you and now it’s back to work, family, and your hum-drum life.

One cure for Con drop and just a good idea in general is to spend time following up. After the event, send a thank you to the event organizers. Praise it on social media. Send a message on Fetlife or Twitter to people you met saying what a pleasure it was to make their acquaintance. Build your network of kinky friends, because cons are great fun, but good friends are what we all seek and need in our lives. 🙂

I’m sure I’ve missed a lot of really good advice, so please drop me a comment below with your tips on attending a kink event for the first time!

In praise of my fellow male submissive.

As I sit in my living room this morning listening to the obnoxiously loud, crotch-scratching, mouth-breathing, cro-magnons paving the driveway across the street, I’m struck by how different my coming out as a male submissive must have been from other men.

For one, I’ve always been surrounded by intelligent, open-minded, sensitive types. I’ve never been a big fan of sports and other competitive endeavors. Most of my friendships have always been with women. It’s where I felt I fit in. I was a ‘band fag’ in high school and college, a computer programmer in my working life. As I started dating my now-wife Suzanne SxySadist, I attended countless BDSM events around the country and made the acquaintance of so many other talented, beautiful kinksters.

Even my ‘coming out’ was made easy for me. My ex-wife outed me to my family – a move that backfired on her as it resulted in them all blocking her and telling me, “Hey, as long as you’re happy!”

So back to my current examples of “macho men” across the street. If that is the life you live in my fellow male submissive friend, I really feel for you! I can imagine how very difficult the idea of coming out around them must be and how very closeted, perverted, and alone you must feel. My heart goes out to you.

Please know however, you are not alone. You are not ‘sick’ or twisted. What you dream of is natural and very beautiful. There is a world filled with men and women who all share your dream. Don’t let the mouth-breathers get you down!

(If you have questions about the lifestyle or just want someone to bitch about life too, feel free to drop me a line at brettmacelveen@gmail.com)

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The of pleasures & short comings of a bidet.

This post is directed to women.

Do you own a bidet? Is your toilet equipped with this joy of modern tech?

If your answer is no, please, please, please check out the link at the end of this article. Avail yourself of some good male service and get one installed immediately for what I guarantee will be your pleasure! The sooner you feel it’s warm wetness gently lapping your asshole, the sooner you will know it’s true – “Once you bidet, there’s no other way!”

If you’re ‘green’ and concerned about our planet as most modern women (and too few men) are, close your eyes while you indulge in this hedonistic, erotic pleasure, content in the knowledge that you will use far less toilet paper in the process, saving one of Goddess’ beautiful creations – trees!

It is such a gentle way to clean your asshole and your most divine bits! No handful of rough harsh paper dragging away at our most holy feminine regions, no worries about bits of paper stuck here or there!

Please believe me and try it for yourself. Heaven awaits you!

BUT.

In fairness, this pinnacle of man’s ingenuity does lack in certain aspects. I would only be fair in telling you. Even the most expensive, well accessorized bidet cannot moan beneath you, sending delightful vibrations to your nether regions. And you simply can not get a sense of ultimate power as you bear down on it, depriving it of breath – feeling it start to squirm in panic, wondering if your pleasure is more important to you than it’s very life!

And sadly… it cannot beg. It can’t beg you for the pleasure of being your ass-worshipper, nor can it beg for mercy when you get… uhmmm… too rambunctious, shall we say.

It cannot look up at your in awe and adoration. Showing its unbridled passion for you and you alone.

<sigh>

But still… it’s pretty good. Try it! You’ll like it!

Shop your future pleasure bidet now!

The Deal the Goddess makes with men

A submissive man is walking home one night, feeling alone, sick and hurt. He has tried and tried to find a woman to dominate him and failed every time. Desperate, he is at that magic moment of utter surrender.

On his way, the Goddess appears to him and he notices she has something in her hand. The man asks “What’s that?”. The Goddess responds, “My domination. In my service you will finally find peace and contentment at a woman’s feet”. The man said “Oh man, That’s what I’ve been searching for! How much does that cost?” as he only understands buying things.

The Goddess returns with “How much do you have?” The man says “I have 20 dollars.” The Goddess responds, “All right, for you, domination, peace and contentment costs 20 dollars.” The man trying to back out of says, “But if I give you all twenty dollars, I won’t be able to buy any gas for my car.”

The Goddess responds “Oh! so you have a car? I’m sorry, but your submission is going to cost you your car.”

“Whoa, whoa!” Says the man. “If I give you my car, how am I going to get to my job?”

“You have a job?!” Exclaims Goddess. “No, no, no. Contentment through me is going to cost you your job.”

The man responds “But, if I give you my job, how am I to pay for my house?” House!!

“You have a house!?” the Goddess says with surprise. “I thought you lived in a cardboard box under the bridge! Your file is completely out of date! Your surrender is going to cost you your house as well.”

The man responds “But if I give you all that, what good is my life?”

The Goddess states “That’s right. Surrender to my domination will cost you your life.”

The man, because he is at that magic moment of surrender is willing to give his the Goddess his money, and his car, and his job, and his house, and his life and for that the Goddess takes control over him.

Then the Goddess looks him deep in the eyes and says:

“All right. I’m going to give you your money back but, it’s not your money anymore, it’s my money. I’m going to let you spend it – for me.”

“I’m going to give your car back but, it’s not your car anymore, it’s my car. You get to drive it – for me.”

“I’m going to give you your job back but, it’s not your job anymore, it’s my job. You get to work at it – for me.”

“I give your house back but, it’s not your house anymore, it’s my home. But, you get to live in it – for me.”

“I give your life back but, it’s not your life ever again. You get to live it – for me.”

That’s the deal the loving Goddess makes with men who are truly willing to submit.

The Rise of the FinDomme

This is a writing from Miss Scarlett UK, a brilliant, dominant, and very sadistic woman as well as an accomplished author of several books. (Emphasis added).

“So Findom is entering the mainstream. A music video. An article in the New York Times. Twitter is awash with a supply of Findoms but still, their number does not seem to exceed demand. I think the line has disappeared that once separated professional dominatrices from Findoms. A visit to a Findom in a car park or hotel room or at an ATM can involve footwear licking, spitting, ball-busting, etc. Many submissives seem to gain huge contentment from serving a Findom and prefer this to visiting the dungeon of a professional dominatrix.

I have posted before, welcoming the Findom phenomenon for two reasons. Firstly, I am in no doubt, that many young women initially attracted to the Findom income, get hooked on the power-rush of pitiless domination of a submissive and, whether or not they end up living with one, the concepts of, (A) the existence of submissive males, and (B) the pleasures of dominating them, are reaching a far wider mainstream audience than ever before, and that must surely cause some wives and girlfriends to give it a go? Particularly if they are friends of a Findom. And secondly, it seems many more submissive males now have the contentment of feeling owned and used and abused by a pitiless dominant woman, (Their Findom), without the only experience previously available of; occasional and very expensive visits to a dominatrix’s dungeon. And this means, female domination is no longer entirely associated with dungeons and leather and PVC and thigh boots and chains and bull whips, as it so unhelpfully used to be when trying to coax a vanilla wife or girlfriend. (Most Findom photos and videos show the Findom in everyday wear and nowhere near a dungeon or the paraphernalia within one.)

But the last time I posted there seemed to be a considerable dislike of Findoms, but not professional dominatrices, which I was unable to understand.

There are a few Findoms I have selected to follow on Twitter and I must say I adore their attitude and dominance and creativity and their submssives get more than just paying them money. Regular followers know my greatest desire is for many, many more wives and girlfriends to take FULL control of their submissives, when they discover they have one, and together form a symbiotic relationship as awesome as mine. So, I hope there is more mainstreaming to come and domination of submissive males becomes much more distanced from the unhelpful stereotype of the clothing and the dungeons of professional dominatrices. (I do adore professional dominatrices though, just not their unhelpful negative influence on vanilla wives and girlfriends.)”

Full Tac, Rico Nasty & Lil Mariko – SIMP (Official Video)

– Miss Scarlett UK

Women don’t talk like that

I will be the first to confess that I did not believe Ms. Renee Lane was real. In fact, when I originally started reading her book, I left it half finished because somewhere in the middle I concluded it was a jerk off fantasy written by a man under the pseudonym of a woman. If had to be.

Because real women don’t talk like that.

I’ve been around the kink world for decades, meeting pro-dommes, going to national events and private parties, and the kinky women I’ve met (and that’s a lot), even the dominant ones simply did not talk about their sexual arousal at torturing a man and such. Sure, they would spank or whip you, a few I know even have 24/7 D/s relationships. But even those seemed to be pretty loving couples for whom D/s was just an small riff in their relationship song. And only in male fantasy/male oriented fiction is the dominant woman bi-sexual with an equally sadistic lesbian lover. No, this was some guy’s fantasy porn and I put it aside unfinished.

Except it isn’t. Ms. Renee Lane is real. What is in her book… is real.

How do I know? I did my research. I’ve had private correspondence with her. I have even met her and Butler in person. But don’t take my word for it, just attend DomCon in New Orleans and you can introduce yourself to them as well.

And through Ms. Lane, I’ve met Goddess Viola Voltairine. A slave owner of two men, seeking to create her own harem of male servants. She also revels in female sexual sadistry. A self-proclaimed vampire, she cuts and feeds on her favorite boy Drum’s blood regularly.

And she is equally real.

Since then and thanks to Ms. Voltairine’s online courses, I have embarked on a study of feminism, matriarchy, and gynarchy and through that have discovered a whole new breed of empowered women who talk and act like men! They aren’t coy or try to be ‘mysterious’ about their desires, they are point blank. “This is what turns me on, this is my kink. Take it or just go.” They understand their power doesn’t come from catering to their males’ wants. They don’t need a whip or to wear fetish gear to get their way because they are not into WIITWD to cater to their husband or boyfriend’s kinks or for the money, they are in it because it turns them on to dominate and punish men and they are very open about it!

It used to be easy to tell the difference between a woman writing an ad or profile and a man catfishing as a woman, because women were coy and coquettish. They say a picture is worth a thousand words so – men post dick pics, women post a close-up of their manicured hands doing up a garter stay. Get it?

But not so with this new generation of empowered women. So much so that I can no longer differentiate between a male pretending to be a dominant woman, and an actual dominant woman!

And here’s the real kicker – Having a woman text you, “So, you wanna be tied up and ass fucked or what?” is… embarrassing, emasculating, dehumanizing. It makes you feel like your just a thing for her to use to get herself off and she isn’t really interested in you as a person. And once she has and is no longer in the mood to listen to your horny male speak, she’ll tell you that too. “Shut up. I’m busy right now.” *

Gee. I guess it’s just like women must have felt with us sexually aggressive men for centuries.

The tables are turning. Ms. Lane and Ms. Voltairine embody the new woman. In the end, I welcome these sexually dominant empowered women. You don’t need to guess what they want, they will tell you. You don’t need to wonder if they are ‘really into it’ or just catering to you for one reason or another, believe them, they aren’t. Their sexual fantasies are theirs and are just as twisted and evil as any man’s. And if you are lucky and work really, really hard to be a good boy for them, they might just include you in them!

* It really gives a whole different outlook on the term, “kept man”. You aren’t financially dependent on her or anything, you are just ‘kept’ waiting around for her fun when she wants you!